What is a Dog calming signal?
Calming signals are set of body language skills which dogs use to maintain healthy relationships and resolve conflict without having to resort to aggressive behaviors. Calming signals can be very subtle or overt from a slight head turn away and sniffing the ground or scratching themselves to a large vocal yawn. Calming signals both help dogs calm themselves and others when dealing with stress or over excitement. Dogs use these signals in early in interactions such as passing another dog on the side walk, responding to a dog charging them in a field or meeting a dog for the first time. Many dogs make use of calming signals in an effort to simply show goodwill or to ask the other dog for more information. 'I am calm and will be respectful tell me that you are going to be calm and respectful.' All breeds of dogs have calming signals; however docking a dogs ears, tails or wearing clothing can hinder a dogs calming signals and make it hard for approaching dogs to read how your dog is feeling. Puppies and dogs need the opportunity to practice their signals. An example you are approaching another dog on the sidewalk and your dog stops and sniffs the ground or stops and scratches allow your dog to keep scratching or sniffing. Don't force or coax your dog into the greeting. Definitely don't punish your dog for using calming signals.
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Calming signals for dogs
Looks away” (turning the head to the side, away from the other dog or person)
Sniffing associative (becoming very interested in not much of anything)
Paw raise is like a question... tell me more? are your cool? (raising one of the front paws off the ground)
Shake offs (can be a slight head shake off or entire body, as if wet)
Scratching (many people think their new puppies have dry skin)
Lip licking (or nose licking)
Moving in an arc (approaching or leaving a wide berth moving in a semi-circle,
Sitting or lying down with their back to the other dog
Stretching (usually with their front paws down and rear high) similar to but is not a play bow
Making a “soft face” – ears back, soft eyes, etc.
Using calming signals with your puppy or dog
Calming signals come in handy when training your puppy or dog when they get over excited.
If your puppy stops performing his cue or command and stops and turns away from you and scratches
Turn your head, a loud sigh or yawn and take a break.
Your puppy will be happy that you understand what they are trying to say.
What are stress signals in dog body language?
Displacement Behaviors (also known as stress signals).
Early signs are the same as calming signals remember that your dog is telling you that they are uncomfortable
Shaking (as if wet)
Inappropriate licking of owner or self
How dog body languages progresses as the stress heightens and can turn aggressive
Lowered body posture
Ears flat back
Averted eyes (looking away, or darting in directions (Hyper vigilant) Whale yes (eyes wide and whites of eyes showing)
Hackles up - must be observed with other body language as it could be excitement, fear or aggression
Leaning back on haunches
Shaking or shivering
Whining or growling
Air snapping no context
Snapping or bite with connecting with skin or clothes
Lunging with growling
Lung with snapping (no contact
Biting while back is turned to bite the backs of legs, or pants when human is walking away
Defensive - has most of their teeth showing front and back
Offensive - only front incisors showing including the canines
Submissive Grin - similar to defensive, but coupled with submissive body postures.
Never approach, advance or use force on a dog displaying an highly stressed or aggressive body language.
Seek processional help from a veterinary behaviorist who can diagnose aggression.
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